Single parenting has the effect to the mental development of children. But that does not mean if you are a single parent and you are not able to implement positive parenting your children. Keep in mind that the child's behavior is a reflection of our behavior is seen by our children.
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Positive parenting means we always instill positive attitudes to our children. Then how to discipline children that manner in accordance with our expectations? Remember that violence will only give birth to violence. If you apply penalties with hand tools and other aids, then believe that your child will do the same to their children someday. And believe that your child will have a hard trait when he became an adult.
I have a grandmother, mother of my mother. My mother was the daughter of the second of four sisters. My grandfather died when my mother was two years old. Since then my grandmother raising four daughters alone. Many of you may think that raising children alone is a difficult thing to do, especially if your partner dies. The burden alone, especially the dual role that must be done is unavoidable.
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My Grandmother was a wonderful mother
Back to the story of my grandmother. My grandmother was a wonderful mother. She was raising her children alone and with love and sincere affection of a mother whose husband just left a treasure house as a legacy. With a sincere prayer and sincere effort, four daughter has now grown to be a good mother and become a successful personal. four daughters became teachers. By seeing the love that was given by my mother to his children, I know that my grandmother educated my mother with love and sincere affection.
Then I asked my mother, in the difficult economic circumstances, how a mother who only have a house as a legacy of her husband and only selling food for daily life can print daughters were independent and successful in the future? How can grandma discipline children when he himself had to struggle to earn money for a living? My mother replied, my grandmother always talked and advised the children to always believe in their own abilities, not wasteful, diligent study for the future of their children, and always prayed to God to always give the best to their children. Remember readers, that the prayers of a mother will always be answered by God. If you feel that your family's economic life is very difficult, apologize to your mother and ask your mother to pray to God so that you are always given the health and ability to live a life.
Mother is an angel who fell to earth, sent by God to raise their children with love. Educate their children to achieve success. Prayer is a string of words your mother loving her children submitted sincerely to God. Single parenting is not something pelu feared. The effects of single parenting to children's development can vary depending on how you treat yourself and your children.
Positive parenting is not always feasible only if the condition of the family was intact. Because not all parents have the luck, but that does not mean a single parent can not raise their children well. Trust me if we raise our children with unconditional love, they will take care of us when we get older.
